I would like to preface this article with a simple notion: not all complaining is bad.  If a school-bus driver speeds in your neighborhood there is reason to complain.  If you find a hair in your food at a restaurant, for the safety of others there is reason to complain.  If you are in great pain and are asked what level your discomfort is, you should complain about the pain in order to get the right treatment.  Again, I repeat, not all complaining is bad.  There are some complaints that are legitimate; but there is a vast difference between legitimate …