Every parent I know wants their children to have the advantage in whatever it is they are doing. We give our kids the best equipment so they can have an advantage in sports. We give them the best education so they can have an advantage in the marketplace. We give them the best resources so they can have an advantage in development. Most of the things that seem advantageous however, are really temporal, inconsequential items. Skinny jeans, iPods, baseball bats, and earphones may bring a smile to their face instantaneously, but they, in themselves, will never give an advantage over …